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Old guy	posted at 12/10/2002 9:25:13 PM
	Came across this board by accident. I'm 42, GWM, and in a 14 year relationship. Reliable? Yup. Basically partnered with my best friend. Loving? Yup. Respectful? Yup. Fulfilling? Yup. Sexually exciting? YUP!!!!! Muhahahahaha................ One of the saddest things you'll see, as you go through life, are people totally miserable in their relationships. The most pathetic in my opinion, are gay guys caught in het marriages. So lame. Spineless creatures who can't or won't be honest with themselves or anyone else. You see them all over internet hook up sites. Not only do they lie to themselves, they lie to their wives, families, kids, and co-workers. Oddly, outsiders probably look at them and their relationships, as "reliable", yet they're nothing but empty shells. Such a waste. True happiness follows being truthful to yourself and others. Can it be costly? Sure. But not as costly as living a lie.
sebmol	posted at 9/6/2002 11:03:28 PM
	I definitely have to agree with Cody. How your relationships turn out depends entirely on you and your partner. So, gay relationships don't by default have to be messy or unreliable; though they can be. But, they can also be the most rewarding and fulfilling experience in your life. seb
Cody	posted at 9/5/2002 12:06:35 AM
	I think a relationship is only what you make it. And within EQ i'm sure you will find a few people to call friends. And seeing that we have all been in the closet before, we know how to keep from outing others. So for you my friend simple advice, Don't be so willing to jump in any relationship until you understand your partner and no mess will be made. Second, talk to some of the guys in and with EQ, they are all good people and can open your eyes to many new areas you may not new existed.
Novice Ting	posted at 8/26/2002 8:52:33 PM
	Well, I think it's the first topic here in this new semester. I am a graduate student at TCU, looking for friendship for a while. Due to the oriental conservativeness, I am still half in closet and not know any gay people on campus. But my heart tells me I do need someone to be my friend. On the other hand, I am afraid of being hurt, because I heard that gay relationship is terribly mess. So what am I gonna do now?