| Ginger |
posted at 3/10/2003 2:56:35 AM |
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Okay, what does everyone think of this one? I was with my ex-boyfriend for the last 2 years, and we broke up last july. He met someone else, but she goes to school across the country. Well, he and I hooked up in January, and have been hooking up/hanging out constantly since then. BUT, although he says he still loves me, he doesn't want a relationship again b/c it's "too painful." BUT he's still talking to that girl every day, and he's going home to spend all of break with her. But yesterday he said "if neither of us are married when we're 30, we should get married" (My Best Friend's Wedding?). I know that I should just stop talking to him, but I just can't make myself do that. I figured out the whole spring break thing on my own, so I feel like he's also been lying to me, about a lot of stuff. But he wants to hang out with me every day, even when he's studying he wants me to come keep him company. Do you all think he's just lonely? And I'm just filling that other girl's spot until spring break? I don't know what to do. Sigh. Thanks for listening. |
| crystal |
posted at 3/8/2003 1:17:31 AM |
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Guys are very stupid but you got to love them! What other stupid creature on this earth is dumb enough to sell their soul to the person who can make their ego feel better. Besides guys are good at a lot of things, they help us movie heavy furniture, you can put your cold feet on them at night, they can carry you so you don't have to walk in mud and they pick up the check and fill up your tank. Thank God they can be led so easily on by a nice smile and a pretty set of legs! Idiots! |
| Kyra |
posted at 2/12/2003 2:43:35 PM |
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Well I feel boys are stupid because they are...you guessed it boys. They can't always get all mushy with their girlfriends cause they have to protect their masculinity. On the other hand gurls need a boy to be strong for them but to also be able to be sweet. So I feel that boys are stupid because they have problems with opening themselves up to girls and girls already have a sensitive side so they are always waiting on the right guy.But hey this is just another opinion. |
| Nicole Monroe of Baton Rouge |
posted at 2/12/2003 1:59:23 PM |
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Well, my story is kind of different from the other girls, my boyfried likes to hang around me he just bitches alot. Every little thing gets him mad. He doesn't like me to talk to anybody. I had to stop being friends with my best friend who happens to be a boy. Alot of people say its love but I think he just has a controlling issue. I've broken up with him many times but everytime I break up with him he makes me feel bad telling how much he needs me. I told myself I was going to break up with him for real this Summer so he couldn't make me feel bad at school, and so I could have a clear head. So to give advice to you girls never mistake being controlling for love because you have to always put yourself first and hopefully I will have the courage to break his heart and take my own advice. Be safe and love yourself!! |
| Nicole Monroe of Baton Rouge |
posted at 2/12/2003 1:59:05 PM |
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Well, my story is kind of different from the other girls, my boyfried likes to hang around me he just bitches alot. Every little thing gets him mad. He doesn't like me to talk to anybody. I had to stop being friends with my best friend who happens to be a boy. Alot of people say its love but I think he just has a controlling issue. I've broken up with him many times but everytime I break up with him he makes me feel bad telling how much he needs me. I told myself I was going to break up with him for real this Summer so he couldn't make me feel bad at school, and so I could have a clear head. So to give advice to you girls never mistake being controlling for love because you have to always put yourself first and hopefully I will have the courage to break his heart and take my own advice. Be safe and love yourself!! |
| Nicole Monroe of Baton Rouge |
posted at 2/12/2003 1:56:35 PM |
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Well, my story is kind of different from the other girls, my boyfried likes to hang around me he just bitches alot. Every little thing gets him mad. He doesn't like me to talk to anybody. I had to stop being friends with my best friend who happens to be a boy. Alot of people say its love but IO think he just has a controlling issue. I've broken up with him many times but everytime I break up with him he makes me feel bad telling how much he needs me. I told myself I was going to break up with him for real this Summer so you couldn't make me feel bad a school, and so I could have a clear head. So to give advice to you girls never mistake being controlling for love because you have to always put yourself first and hopefully I will have the courage to break his heart and take my own advice. Be safe and love yourself!! |
| Cody |
posted at 7/2/2002 7:45:38 PM |
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I must agree with Seb on the issue. Men/Boys should give anyone they are dating respect and courtesy. We all get tired of doing things at times, but who's to say you couldn't spen a nice relaxing evening cuddling to a movie or something of the sort. "Im too tired" is an excuse and in my personal opinion it could be an excuse to cover something else up. As Seb said, there are SO many other guys out there. I know a few straight ones myself who would give anything to find a gal they can just "chill" with and have fun with. And is it a plus he's homo-friendly? Good luck Meredith! |
| sebmol |
posted at 6/26/2002 2:43:55 PM |
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What you should do about him? Dump his ass and find somebody better. There's lots of fish in the sea. So just go out there, and grab somebody else. Life's too short to hang on to those who aren't worth it. And clearly, if he'd rather not spend time with you, he's definitely not worth it anyway. |
| Meredith |
posted at 6/26/2002 12:06:34 PM |
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So, my on-again-off-again boyfriend, Alex, just got back from a 6-week stay in Europe, and has been telling me he's too tired to hang out with me for the last 4 days. I'm so tired of relationships that don't work, and I'm pretty much at the boiling point and ready to give up on ever dating again.
The only guys I can stand for more than an hour at a time are gay (love you guys!), and my dad says I'm "heterophobic". Ha Ha Ha...
Anyway, what do y'all think I should do about Alex? |